Everything You Need to Know About The Weirdest Sexual Fetish Dating

woman with sex fetishIntimacy and sweet romance are nice, but being choked, hard pounded, or being spanked is even nicer. Sexual fetish dating is not about having a dirty mind, it is about having a sexy imagination. Believe me, there are a lot of fetish websites out there that can explain this to you more graphically. Fetish dating is all about hard pounding, back scratching, wrist tying, butt slapping, hair-pulling, lip biting and ear nibbling.


What is sexual fetish dating?


Allow me to decipher!!!

Fetishism is a word that dates back to the 1800s. It is used to refer to sexual fetish; a condition in which a person through a repetitive or persistent use of non-living objects, a living object, or specific focus on a certain part of a body to achieve orgasm or sexual satisfaction. It is the obsessive interest and often explains the sexual fixation of an individual on inanimate objects. With that said, I am sure you are probably wondering what is the explanation for sexual fetish dating? Here are some of the explanations for fetish dating that might not be found on fetish dating sites.

Some of the sexual satisfaction methods that is common to many includes couples love kissing, men love boobs, and others have foot fetishes. But why is it that some people are attracted to armpits or your nose, but some aren’t? There has to be an underlying reason why people get attracted to certain objects or body parts.

Let us quickly dive in!!


  1. Foot fetishes

Your feet are the most fetished part of the body across the globe. This is an awkward body part yet it is still the most fetished; you can’t have sex with a foot, and some foot have major fungus down there. According to scientists, the sensation in your feet and your genital organs both transmit impulses to the same location of your brain. Another theory states that foot fetish became a thing during the STD outbreak and people used it as an alternative to arousal.


  1. The perception that oral sex in keeping your virginity and preventing unwanted pregnant.

The perception of oral sex being a win-win for both partners without consequences of pregnancy and loss of virginity has escalated the practice. Oral sex has evolved from generations to generations. It is important to note that, it is not a genetic trait, but the benefits of safer pregnancies. Another myth holds that the best way to get acquainted with your future partner is to taste it and eat it. These fetish dating perceptions have passed on across the globe in various generations.


  1. Theories on the female climax

The female orgasm is different from the male climax in that many women can have multiple orgasms at once. For women orgasm was an incentive once her; 1st, 2nd and 3rd partner was done. This theory has promoted the belief of multiple sex partners at a row to achieve different orgasms in a row. It has explained the word 3-some and 2-some or 4-some. It is seen as rewarding the lady with multiple orgasms.


  1. Explanation of kissing

Scientists are the school of thought that when you kiss someone, nerve O will pick up their pheromones which in turn sends impulses to the whole body to send blood to your genitals. Kissing is so significant and it is a biological process that allows you to access your partner’s immune system. Kissing influences the decision of you or your partner to have sex.

With that said, you now know some of the reasons for sexual fetishes have occurred. It is important that you understand a list of the weirdest sexual fetish dating out there.

Weirdest Sexual Fetishes Out There


Some of the weirdest sexual fetishes may blow or not blow your mind. Let’s dive in!!


  1. Adult babies


adult babies fetishAdult babies for those couples in fetish dating and are interested in being babies again will have a sexual fetish for adult babies. They may be aroused with the act of wearing diapers, sucking the baby bottle, dressing up as a baby, speaking like a baby, or crawling like a baby instead of walking. Such individuals usually seek to be noticed, or they wish to escape from the many activities of their life.


  1. Group sex and Swinging of partners

The swinging of partners is common amongst married couples where there are full consent and permission. This is where partners will indulge in sex with one or different couples. The explanations and reasons for group sex or swinging of partners are to, allow their husbands to view their wives in a different perspective, boost the woman’s confidence, and strengthen the relationship. It is important to note that such couples psychologically are jealous, have trust issues, and are suffering from low-self esteem.


  1. Cross-dressing your partner

This involves dressing your partner in clothes of the opposite sex. It even involves doing facials and make-ups to your partner. This is a common weird sexual fetish among couples. It is greatly seen in gay men and intersexual couples. The reasons for cross-dressing is that the partner does not believe that the specific gender they were born into presents who they really are. They may be aroused at a forbidden concept or they enjoy the various aspects of fashion.


  1. Fetish Spanking

If contact is made to the buttocks with sufficient frequency and pressure, it creates arousal for many women. But spanking might also aroused mixed reactions like taking you back to your childhood, make you feel humiliated,  loved,  turn you on, or can be symbolic to represent the whole submission and domination concept in the relationship.


  1. Role-playing between you and your partner

Role-playing is a sexual fantasy that involves sexual partners assumes and take up different roles in a sexual scenario, it may also involve dressing up in costumes. Role-playing is aimed at satisfying a specific sexual fetish dating fantasy.


  1. Submission and Domination

From the handcuffs sold at a women’s boutique to the sexual fetish dungeon setup, is all a fetish move that aims at driving the concept of submission and domination. One partner may be aroused by dominating and another by submission.


  1. Foot fetishes

Your feet are the most fetished part of the body across the globe. This is an awkward body part, yet it is still the most fetished;


  1. Quickie at the beach

Many couples have many fantasies of making love at the beach, or on the sand.


From the above interesting fact, it is true that in fetish dating, there exist various weirdest sexual fetishes that range from adult babies to domination and submission. The next time you are out and about, take a good look around you. It is difficult to imagine that most of the serious people actually have weird sexual fetishes.


The Secret World of Sexual Fetishes

  1. Cross-Dressing

TOP 10 sexual fetishesFolks that engage in cross-dressing wear clothing and accesories of the “opposite gender.” Cross-dressing is actually a pretty common fetish, mostly among straight and gay men. People engage in cross-dressing for various reasons, some may use it as a means of dealing with gender dysphoria, while others just enjoy it! Cross-dressing also has a long history, in the UK, male prostitutes would often wear wigs or mops to appear as the opposite gender. Cross-dressing also can be seen in television as far back as the show MASH, with the character clinger!


  1. Foot/Feet Worship

This is by far the most common fetish that doesn’t involve genitalia . People who have foot fetishes enjoy a variety of things about the human foot. Some enjoy to massage, others enjoy licking, and some enjoy smelling! The foot secretes many hormones and each persons foot smells unique, which is why there is such a huge market for used socks! EBay actually had to ban the sale of used socks because it was deemed a “biological hazard,” but the sock trade and foot fetish is alive and well!


  1. Spanking


Spanking is exactly how it sounds, being smacked on the rear. This fetish is pretty common and you can search many sites to find a video if your interested in engaging in it! Spanking is a light form of BDSM, some think it stems from the erotic nature of being disciplined by your partner or being the one doing the spanking!


  1. Water Sports


Water Sports is a newer fetish, started in the gay community when a man decided to jump into a large urinal to let folks urinate on him. It took off from there! Water Sports is often just abbreviated as WS, WS is more common in the gay community, but can be enjoyed by anyone. We do recommend that you do use some kind of barrier or engage in WS in the bathroom, as urine can get into a lot of spaces. Some people enjoy being urinated on, while some enjoy drinking the urine of someone else, it all falls under the category of water sports!


  1. Voyeurism/Exhibitionist


Some research suggest one in three people enjoy engaging in voyeurism, which is watching someone else have sex or exposing them selves in public. The person who is doing the act of exposing their selves is called an exhibitionist! This common fetish is also illegal in most countries, labeled as indecent exposure! While it may be illegal, it has not stopped people from enjoying this fetish. You can go to sex clubs and experience voyeurism yourself, if you dare you can even partake in exhibitionism as well!


  1. Bug Chasers


This fetish is not as well known as others, it is when an individual purposely seeks out others who are infected with a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI). The most common STI sought out by Bug Chasers is HIV, Human Immunodeficiency Virus, and it is more common in the gay community. Often people who are Bug Chasers romanticize the virus and see it as one would see being bitten by a vampire! Bug Chasers who wish to be infected with HIV will set up gang bangs and allow people living with HIV to have unprotected sex with them, these gang bangs are called Pozzing Parties! We do not recommend engaging in this fetish because HIV can be a deadly disease if not treated.


  1. Stealthing


Similar to Bug Chasing, but slightly different because stealthing is the act of purposely infecting others with HIV. Stealthing is also highly illegal! An individual who is HIV positive and does not adhere to medical treatment can infect someone with HIV. This fetish is common among both the heterosexual and homosexual community. Often the “stealther” finds it erotic to make more people positive or just has it out to make as many people positive as they can. Most people who engage in this fetish ae males, but there are females as well.


  1. Sexual Role Play


This fetish can involve putting on a costume or acting as someone different with your partner! “Knock Knock, Pizza Delivery!” This can be a fun way to spice up your bedroom and explore different erotic pleasures! We strongly recommend trying it out! Keep those Halloween costumes or head down to your local sex store to buy that French maid outfit! Role Play is what you make it, so use your imagination to its fullest!


  1. Scat Play


Scat Play involves human feces. If anyone remembers the famous “Two Girls One Cup” video, then that is an example of Scat Play! People who enjoy this fetish are a small minority of the fetish community, they focus on the object of feces. The can get pleasure from someone defecating on them or eating feces, while others get pleasure from doing the defecating on someone. While you would think this is common in the gay community, more heterosexual men enjoy this fetish than any other group. Research is limited on this fetish, but it is common knowledge that females and males secret different hormones and this may be the basis for this fetish, similar albeit more extreme than those who enjoy foot worship.


  1. Furry Fetish


Furry FetishThis may not be what you’re thinking if you have the image of someone worshiping a man with a fuzzy chest! This community is large and growing each day! A Furry is a person who has taken on the identity of an animal for sexual play. They go all out, buying expensive costumes of animals such as foxes, wolves, dogs, dragons, and many other animals! There are many different slang words in the community such as “Yiffy,” which means erotic or sexually aroused. Other slang words like “Furfen,” which means someone who is a furry fan! They even have a word that may describe you “Latent Furry,” someone who did not know of the existence of the furry community that would like to join! If not then they would just describe you as a “Smoothie,” or a human (smooth because of your lack of fur). Furrcons, furry conventions, are a great way to get involved in the community and they are becoming more common!


How to Tell Your Partner about Your Sexual Fetishes

I have foot fetishAnyone who ever tells you they don’t have a secret fetish is lying. The term fetish has a surprising origin. It once referred to a religious object such as a talisman or charm that had an almost irrational importance to someone. With the rise of atheism, where increasingly religion has taken a less important role in our day to day lives, the term fetish has taken on a new meaning, one denoting sexual desire or fantasy.

Even today, the word fetish has some negative connotations, somehow implying sexual deviancies that cannot be admitted to others for fear of feeling that you are in some way perverse.  The truth is that this is not true at all. We all have hidden desires and fantasies that we hide for fear of being labeled perverse. The first step to overcoming your fear of telling your partner about your secret desires is to understand that they are completely normal and that they will most certainly have some too.

Your desires are part of who you are and so should never be repressed or denied. Obviously, there are some desires or fantasies that should never be acted upon, as they are either illegal or would do harm to others. For the most part, however, fetishes should be seen as a completely acceptable part of your normal sex life.

What exactly is a fetish?

A sexual fetish can be anything that is not part of your ordinary sex life. These fetishes can be anything from a desire to be tied up and spanked to being involved in non-consensual acts such as torture. Sometimes sexual acts like oral sex are even considered fetishes to some, because they might not be available to that person because their partner won’t perform such acts. Generally, however, a fetish is regarded as a desire for a sexual act that doesn’t exist within the boundaries of ‘normal’ sex.

It is for this very reason that most people consider it very hard to discuss with their partner that they have a fetish.

Do you really need to tell your partner you have a fetish?

The first thing you need to consider before you tell your partner you have a fetish is do you really even need to tell them at all? Many fetishes such as self-asphyxiation or feeling the need to spank your testicles with a wooden paddle while masturbating don’t actually require anyone else to know. You might want to tell your partner because they have noticed your strange behavior or you may just need to confide in someone to help get it off your chest, but you don’t have to tell them if you don’t want to. Whatever the reason, you should take a moment to decide if you really need to tell them or not.

If you decide not to tell them you don’t need to feel guilty

Guilt is a sign that you feel bad for doing something wrong. A clear distinction needs to be made here regarding the secret exploration of your fetishes and doing something wrong. Provided the fetish is being carried out on your own and is not harming anyone else then there is no reason to feel you are doing something wrong. Once you have accepted that there is nothing morally wrong in exploring this desire,then you can treat it like any other form of sexual behavior you might engage in while your partner is not around. After all, you wouldn’t run off to tell your partner every time you masturbated in the shower or watched a porn movie, so exploring your fetish need be no different.

How can you tell them?

fetish coupleIf you decide that you need to tell your partner you really need to consider what is the best time and place. This will really depend on what kind of fetish you have and what type of person your partner is. If they are quite conservative then you really are probably much better slowly guiding them into it rather than sitting them down at the kitchen table to tell them face to face. This softer approach could be, in the case of spanking, waiting for an intimate moment and either gripping their hand and motioning them to slap you, or saying something like ‘I like when you slap me’, for example.

The soft approach is a much better way of easing your partner into your fetish, but is not really suitable for the more full-on fetishes such as strangulation and bondage. For these fetishes, it is defiantly advisable to sit your partner down to discuss it at length. Though this is a more difficult approach, it really pays off in the end as it gives you the space to let out your feelings and explain exactly what you are into. If you are telling your partner in the hope that she or he will get involved in acting out your fantasies, then understanding is certainly the first step.

What happens if they don’t understand?

Being honest about your fantasies is as important as being honest about anything else. In order to maintain a healthy mental state, it is important to learn to be who you really are. Part of this learning involves being open and sharing everything with your partner that you feel you need to. If they become upset or don’t understand your sexual fetishes then you really have a choice to make.

If you are happy to continue to live with things the way they are, provided your partner is at least ok with knowing, then you can just go on as you were. If on the other hand, you wish to begin to explore these fetishes with them, then you really need to continue trying to get them to understand. To do this, you can sit them down again and stress the strong importance of your fetish to you before directing them to some books, articles or other media to help them to understand. With any luck, with a little time and persistence, you and your partner will be exploring those fun fetishes and making your sex life exciting again.